You've made it to the last month of 2020! There’s enough to celebrate right there.
Deep breath.
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As we begin 2021, we officially enter a new paradigm where heart-centered communication is the way. Humanity is evolving from being mind-centric to functioning through the heart, and we’re in our awkward in-between years right now.
We’ve often associate our sensitivity with making things more difficult, however, it is actually a huge positive! We can respond quickly and easily to very subtle shifts in energy, which can be very advantageous. The Angels are reminding us that riding the high vibe waves during the season of light (happening now!) can make growth and change much more fluid.
And with that, they are asking us to use this time to clean up the energy of avoided or failed communication. We are notoriously conflict-avoidant because of our depth of feeling. So, we’ve learned to internalize anything that could cause potential conflict instead of dealing with it. We often hide this fear with mal-adaptive behaviors like using our tools to “work through it” on our own.
We do everything we can to clear energy without involving the other party, when, in truth, speaking with them is exactly what we need to do. There are three entities in any relationship—you, the other party, and the relationship itself. Each of these three parties is affected by everything that happens within this sacred container. When we work things out “on our own,” we are denying two and a half of those parties the chance to clear energy.
Speaking and being heard are validating experiences. The Angels want us to realize how unfair it is when we don't give the other person the opportunity to speak and/or to be heard. Likewise, we are unfair to ourselves by not allowing ourselves to speak or to be heard. For these reasons, we are often left feeling invalidated. And this leads to stories that we adopt that are not necessarily true. It also leads to issues with using our voice.
In the midst of conflict, we might not be able to get to a place of communicating love right away. Walking away and allowing the emotional charge to dissipate before opening a conversation is a must—and coming back to talk it through is also a must. Approaching a situation from the heart, everything always works out in the end—even if we make some big missteps along the way.
The Angels want us to take this month to master this art with grace. Difficult conversations don't always have to be conflict-ridden. They are often clarifying and healing—leaving everyone feeling much lighter afterward.
The world we're building from here needs a well-rounded foundation built from a myriad of perspectives. When we can listen to and hear another, we receive information that we might not have ever considered. In opening ourselves to increased communication, we create opportunities to build a world that is flexible and grows with us—instead of a world that is myopic and rigid.
As we clear this energy that has been stuffed down in our systems, we become better able to receive communication from our higher self, our inner guidance, and our Divine Team.
Are There Exceptions?
Sometimes, the other parties are not willing or able to talk it through. Everyone has their own reasons and woundings. If another has been very clear in letting you know they're not open, then you can go off and do as much work as you can on your own, knowing you’ve tried your best.
The other situation where you would move to work through things on your own is if there is potential danger. Stay away from a threatening situation. You are too important to us.
Clear Communication is Key
We are moving into a more intuitive and telepathic society, and if we have confused energies living in our system, beaming out a simple message like, “Could you please pick up a cup of coffee for me on your way home?” becomes very charged. All of the unresolved issues that we have with that person go along with the message and they have no idea why they are confused and hurt by your coffee ask.
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For all of these reasons, we need to purify our systems of all of these unresolved communication issues before the calendar hits 2021.
Also remember that as we're speaking from the heart we are listening from there, as well. It’s how we pick up the things that may not be adequately communicated with words. Listening from the heart eradicates judgment. Judgment and peace cannot exist in the same place.
The Beauty of 2020
In other news, one of the most beautiful things that has come out of this year is that humanity has realized how important physical communication is. We’ve missed it, and have made the choice to include it in our experience as we move forward.
Many societies, especially amongst our galactic brothers and sisters, have opted to forego all of these sensory experiences in the interest of streamlining communication, yet the ability to communicate through our senses is consistently one of the things they tell us they admire about us—and miss.
The Intensity
The Angels want us to realize that we’ve not only gone through intense mental and emotional experiences this year, but major physiological shifts and rewirings, as well. We have been being prepared for what comes next and releasing what was that was no longer necessary. (Wasn’t that fun?) This time of being on our own actually made those changes easier on us, despite the emotional toll it took.
Yet we underestimate our accomplishments, accusing and judging ourselves. Understanding the depth and scope of what happened within us helps us to come to compassion and love in our self-talk.
Listen to your body. It will tell you exactly what you need to move forward to shift the energy to move into the next phase. This relationship will keep you as healthy, fluid, can clear as possible as you move forward.
Many Blessings for a beautiful Season of Light!
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TLDR:
Use December to clean up any areas where there are remnants of confused communication between you and another.
The future depends on it.
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